A few weeks ago a little neighbor boy came to my door selling food items as a fund raiser for his Cub Scout group. Don and I both agreed that we should always purchase at least one item from the little sales people to help build their confidence and social skills. I had forgotten all about the order until last night when he came back to deliver the two tins of popcorn we had ordered. He told me how much I owed him and I proceeded to write him a check.

From the corner of my eye I could see that he was studying the Christmas tree so I asked him if his family had decorated their tree yet. "Yep, but ours is much bigger than yours." I had to smile because it was such a child answer (mines bigger, better, brighter than yours). Then he reminded me that they didn't have a tree last year. His mother was due with their third child and was experiencing some complications. Rather than risk an early delivery they chose bed rest that limited a lot of the usual Christmas traditions. She delivered a healthy baby girl a few days before Christmas but the big event was the Baby not the tree.  

As I handed him the check I asked, "So, what are you getting this year for Christmas?" Without skipping a beat, he proceeded to tell me what he was giving both his sisters, mom, and cousin. I honestly expected to hear his personal Christmas wish list but instead I learned from a very humble child the true meaning of Christmas. He was more excited about what he was GIVING than what he was getting.

I think I'll change that question around next time and ask, "What are you giving this year for Christmas?"

Happy Giving,Brenda Bates

As I prepare my heart for the Christ child, I can't help but remember what Jesus gave to me - His life in exchange for my salvation. It sure makes any gift that I could give seem insignificant.

Ultimately, it has nothing to do with the gift that is given but has everything to do with the spirit of the GIVER.